Indonesian Men

In the first weeks I was in Indonesia, I went out with some friends to MATOS, which is the Malang Town Square, i.e. a shopping mall! So I chilled with about 8 people and we used the photobox, which is a closed picture taking area and you can make whatever you want in there…SUPER popular and I am sure the idea would be popular at home too!!!! :)

Anyways, this is beside my point…So I was hungry so I ordered some food for supper/dinner…And the dude sitting beside me told me this: “Wow Sofie! You eat a lot” Ohhhhhhhhh ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Let’s just say that I wasn’t quite enchanted by this comment!!!!

So I am on the quest to make this boy realize what to say and what NOT to say to women…And one thing NOT to talk about is food with a girl! I know girls all over the world that are STICK thin and eat 2 or 3 times what I eat! Besides, I’ll eat if I am hungry so back-off…(It’s myyyyyyyyyyyy cheesecake ;) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyways, last week, I had another ‘episode’ with this boy!!!! So I had a date Friday (YES, a date with a great Indonesian dude :P). And there is this guy from AIESEC Universitas Brawijaya (the LC I am here with) that is going to AIESEC Edmonton for about 1.5 year!!!!!!! Man, big shock with the weather is in store for him…hehehe!!!!

So the guy going to Canada (Let’s call him B) knows the dude with the food comment (let’s call him A) VERY well. So A sends me an SMS a couple of hours before my date and says: “I know you are going out with ---- tonight but I need to speak with you about B. Please tell me where you are going and I’ll come and see you for 10 or 15 minutes!” AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH…I want to kiiiiiiilll u!!!!! So I called him! I figured if he wants to talk to me, we can do it over the phone….and NO! He STILL wanted to meet….ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

My date with ---- was awesome for those who want to know (:P) and I asked him if he ‘invited’ them (A & B)…And the answer was negative, THANK GOD!

So, I had a talk with A…And he told me that he knew it was impolite, but he sent me the SMS anyways…ARGGGGG!!!! I told him that next time 2 people from opposite gender go out ALONE, don’t try to tag along…hahaha!!!!

Here I am in Indonesia trying to educate men what to do with girls…hehehe!!!! Stay tuned for the other ‘lessons’ I will have with A!!!!!! :P